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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

I’m Jessica Santosa Carlton - Christian Dating Coach, Matchmaker, wife of 6 years, and mum of two boys.
For over 10 years, I’ve helped Christian men and women cut through confusion and date with the kind of clarity that leads to marriage.

I’ve coached 13+ clients into engagement and godly covenant marriages - and I believe every love story rooted in Christ can become legacy-shaping.

My background? I’ve spent 11 years as a Therapeutic Social Worker, led teams of psychologists and counsellors, and hold certifications in Results Coaching, NLP, Matrix Therapies, and Prepare-Enrich (Marriage Prep).

My work’s been featured in Match UK, Upward App, and Life Coach Magazine - but the real reward is seeing Christian singles walk into marriage with peace, purpose, and less emotional whiplash.

Modern dating is messy.
But God’s design is clear:
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